Monday, 30 March 2015

Another Virgin Mary for me

I don't believe in virginity.
But how can you not believe in virginity? Its a real thing.
Actually, its not.

Virginity, the state of never having sexual intercourse, doesn't exist in my little world. To me the losing of one's supposed innocence was never a big deal and lets face it, my mind was never innocent in the first place. From around the age of nine boys in my primary school started talking about girls, and some how knew what sex was. I, the forever boffin tomboy that I was used to hang around with said boys occasionally. We had some interesting lunchtimes, like the time one of them brought in a magazine that had some guy in just a pair of speedos in, or the fact that whenever it came to talking about the sticky stuff they would ask loads of awkward questions.

I don't believe in virginity because it is a made up concept that was used to determine a female's ranking in society quite a long time ago and by now, it should have become a little more relaxed. I can fully understand if you want to save it for the right one though. For girls it's not the nicest of experiences.Yes, men, you get the better end of the deal, we get painful first times, periods, child birth, and a higher chance of getting raped or assaulted on the streets and you get dangly bits on the outside that can be sensitive when we get too mad at you and decide to hit it where it hurts.

If anyone, repeat anyone, trys to shun others for loosing it before they think they should, I will rage at you. I was always told that it should happen when I deemed myself ready, not when any religion or person told me it was right.

P.S, I am also very aware that nearly everything I ever post will probably send me to hell, if there is one.
P.P.S, Don't drink, its not good ( Reference to title)!

1 comment:

  1. Brilliant! Well done! Totally agree!
    And hell...Yep! That's for me. don't want to go
    to heaven...Shan't no anyone there! :).

    Now! I've heard of a 'Bloody Mary'
    'Virgin Mary' ? New drink?
    Hehe! Virgin on the ridiculous.....

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